Help!!!! Advice please?!?

My boyfriend is really controlling.. He won't let me change my profile picture on Facebook unless he's in it. But I want one of myself, I mean what's the big deal, it's my Facebook.. The picture I have now is from April of us. I want to change it to a recent picture of me but he's being mean about it. He's saying that I'm doing it for attention, that I want to "show myself off" and that I want guys to hit on me. He's also saying that that I must like myself better than us and that I must be ashamed of us. He's making a huge deal out of it and saying that he must not be enough for me, and that I must want attention from other boys. I just dont understand. Now we're in a huge fight iver this and hes like "How can you do something that I'm so against?" How do I handle this situation ? I've tried telling him everything. I don't want attention what so ever, I just want a new picture of myself.